My kind of man....

If you didn't already know, I love men...Men who are intelligent and confident....The free thinkers...

Confident, intelligent men make their own decisions and they make them without requiring the approval of others. They are those who know what they like, and like what they like regardless of it's popularity. I find no bigger turn off than those men who only choose what's popular, or choose something because someone said they should....Men who walk their own path are my heroes!! They drive the kind of vehicle they think is best for them, not because of it being a status symbol, or trendy...They dress is a way that makes them feel comfortable and aren't beholding to any particular brand name. Confident men want to look good, they just don't have a need to be a brand representative! They have their own style.....They date or partner with the type of woman they find attractive, not who other men find hot. Who they have on their arm isn't there for anyone other than them and she is there because he choose her not because someone said she was who he should be with......A confident, intelligent man doesn't push a persons boundaries, they respect them. They aren't entitled. They have no need to impress as they are confident with their own abilities and knowledge...They aren't "one uppers" or "right fighters"..... .Conversations are easy with these type of men as they are welcoming to other perspectives, and interested in what matters to you........Intelligent, confident men know their limitations, and realize they have imperfections. Which they accept with grace... It is the egotisits who'll see themselves as perfect, who'll have a need to be right, to lead, to be popular. Since it's the ego which seeks approval and fears being imperfect and critique... ..Nothing will dry out a woman quicker than a man with a big ego, and I don't believe that any man who's ego is large, can also be intelligent....As I equate intelligence with an ability to be thoughtful, self aware, understanding, and accepting to differences.....Anyhow, that's just how I see it....Thanks for reading.