BenDover on lyla, here he goes again, lol.

Lol, always on this site, and this only started happening after they booted me off of there because of my truth telling, and because I had the "gall" to stand up to some of their favored members, lol. So now every now and then one or two of their prolific posters will feel safe there sullying my name since I haven't the ability to respond. There have been a few guys, over the years, and they could even be ladies...meaning that just because a profile shows someone as being a client, or hobbyist, doesn't necessarily mean they are as they claim. Who'll use that site as their retaliatory message board. A place to insult those they dislike.....Anyhow, I've learned that my name is once again being brought up there and as per usual there are a couple of goofs, one who is a usual suspect, lol, and the other, an unknown, who are claiming that I'm in my 60's, lol, well maybe I do look that old now, lol.... It's always the same ole schtick they use, mock my looks or my age. The unknown claimed that he saw me some ten years ago and assumed I was probably in my 50's back then. I wasn't, I was in my 40's, and was often told I looked younger. I find it funny and interesting how every now and then some guy who I can't remember will pop up and make such a mean comment. Clearly someone is disgruntled for some reason...and here I thought everyone liked me, lol (I'm saying that with humour) I realize I can't please everyone and that there are those who'll only see me through their filter and not as I am.......So the other commentor, this usual suspect, this BenDover, who is a known hobbyist, Lately, is always one to jump in ready to insult me. It was just a couple of months ago that he had made another ridiculous post about me on that board. He claimed he had seen me some15 years ago and couldn't get the date out of his head, and not in a good way..... He claimed that I demanded a wooden hanger, and other foolishness in his nonsensical post, and added that I had been advertising as 48 for the past ten years. I would have included that post but it has since been deleted. This time he claims I've been advertising as 50, for the past ten years, lol. Perhaps next month he'll post again saying that I've been advertising as 52 for the past 10 years, lol.....Interesting how he seems to be following all my advertising all while getting my listed age wrong, lol........But here is the most interesting thing....All of his ageist and other insults towards me only started happening after I told an escort who had seen him, that it might be best to get herself medically checked, because I had been told years ago, sometime around 2018, by some reliable people that this BenDover person was known to have herpes. I would have warned her before but I wasn't made aware that she was seeing him.....Anyhow, the escort who told me that she had seen him isn't on good terms with me now, so I have to assume there is a connection between the two of them and those posts he's been making.....This can't be a coincidence....I have to assume that she told him what I said to her and he is retaliating by taking any and all opportunities to besmirch me. It's the only thing that makes sense.... I don't say such things easily, and I do stand by my words.... Those who warned me about him said they had seen visible signs.....I hadn't felt the need to be anything but discreet about this but since this person seems to have a need to try and continuously sully my name/reputation, I no longer feel a need to keep such things private. I will add that I have no memory of seeing him as a client as he claimed, and if I had seen him, I'll count my lucky stars, because as of my last checkup, this past month, I remain sti free......

https://www.lyla.ch/topic/217791-mature-woman-recommendations/

Thanks btw to Cj for his supportive comment. Nice to see at least one person being supportive towards me......It's a shame more of those men who continue to cross my doorstep and who are members there, won't chime in. Perhaps they are unaware of the thread.....

So I'm adding an old ad of mine that I found from 2011...you'll notice the age in the ad and in one of the pics the date 05/15/11...so to all those who try and convince others that I've been advertising as a particular age for 10 +years, get your facts straight...Some of my ads say 50's, some 51, some 53.... 53 is accurate.....I'm sure there are those that have other ages since there are lots of scraper sites out there who grab old ads and post them as if they are new, and without my permission. I can't control everything on the web, nor do I have the time to go searching all the time for such ads. I purposely put that I'm 99 in my leolist ad because of people like benDover and a few others who enjoy making up shit or just shit posting because they can. I've come to realize that after all the years I've been in this industry those types of shit posts are to be expected, at least for me. It's just how small minded, disgruntled, unhappy people react. They post whatever they feel might harm a person they dislike while they hide behind their anonymous handle......I think I'll start posting my age now as 110...I've got to give those key board warriors something to gossip about, lol. If I do they'll probably complain that I'm aging to fast....Ahh, those review boards. What would those poor goofs do without them....What would they do with their time, where would they post their drivel..... lol.