Yes this topic again, sorry, lol...

First, let me apologize to a particular client, lol, as I promised him I was going to keep my blogs positive, erotic and not about the review board culture....Sorry, but I've got something more to say on the subject....One, because I wanted to post a quote from the beautiful, well spoken Pamela Luscious, which, btw, she has given me permission to post. Secondly, I just wanted to add my two cents, or three or four, lol, because anyone who knows me, knows I've always something to say about some things, especially on the topic of reviews....

Here is Pamela's quote I think Twitter(X) and/or Bluesky are replacing forums altogether. They allow clients to follow SWers, discover new ones, see schedules, access candid content and personality, and actually engage in conversation with far fewer restrictions on both sides.

SWers are moving away from forums, and honestly, being publicly reviewed is dehumanizing. Many clients now prefer to send appreciation privately through text rather than leave a public review.

There are plenty of ways to establish legitimacy without reviews in 2026. The model has simply evolved.-end quote.....

She was responding to comments made concerning how dead the local review board has become, with it's lack of reviews....

As Pamela often does, she nailed it with her comment, no pun intended, lol.....Reviews are dehumanizing!! Those three words were a perfect summation to all I've said previously in other blogs about the review board culture. That is all that really needs to be said to explain why so many of us detest reviews and the culture....

Now I understand why some younger escorts fall into the culture and defend it. They don't see the politics behind it all, nor do they understand that many of those guys who play in that game, have been doing/saying the same shit about ladies, decade after decade, or year after year....A new girl comes along and they run and see her, praise her, or condemn her, then throw her away when the next "shiny new one" comes along" and they continue the cycle...So their bravado about you, isn't flattering, it's schtick...same ole stuff just different characters.....Writing reviews, for those guys is their entertainment. They love reliving their sexcapades through public print and discussion...They love telling everyone that they got to bang some hot chick or they love to shame those ladies who didn't meet their often unattainable standards......And please note, many of those review board guys couldn't live up to basic standards, if they were to be judged on any of their merits.....Yes RB guys are a special breed and many of them are crying because the only tool that entertains them is dying a slow obvious death. As Pamela pointed out, social media has become the go to now for finding an escort... My opinion.... the smart guys, those who don't need public approval for whom they choose to date, for those guys who appreciate discretion and realize that intimacy should remain intimate, social media has become their go to tool as part of their research to get to know the escort/s they choose to meet. Not review boards, not reviews...These guys don't need to read another person's opinion of who is good or bad to see, they'll decide on their won and when they decide they'll keep that to themselves because they'll realize the subjectivity of these types encounters. They'll realize just how dehumanizing it is when a man puts to print, for others to critique, an intimate description of a woman's body, looks, and sexual skill. Review board guys won't get any of that, nor will they care...Because getting their kudo's from their like minded, sharing their smut is what makes their groins grow and their entertainment. It's their life, lol....AND don't be fooled, when these goofs lament that reviews keep them safe....That's an excuse...most of those guys are lazy, they never research and again, they just like everything public. Because they enjoy having the power to publicly scrutinize anyone in any fashion....Lets face it, for most of them it's the only power they have, lol!!

Thanks again Pamela for another well said post....