Who I recommend.....

Most of my clients are regulars, meaning they have chosen to visit with myself only and on a regular basis. Be that weekly, bi weekly or monthly...... There is a couple who also visit with other professional ladies but they are still considered regulars because I can depend on them visiting with me on a regular basis. So when I date a new client and get a sense that he won't be returning because we didn't connect, or who has made it clear his visit will be a one and done, I'll offer him some alternative options if he asks, so if he decides to look elsewhere, he'll be safe and find another escort more aligned to his needs. I always direct the gentlemen to the site called Tryst.link. If he is looking for a local lady I'll point out those on that site who are local, and those who travel here. Then it is up to him to research them to find his match..... My criteria for an escort being considered professional entails them having a personal website, social media activity, ads on other sites, and clearly no history of scamming or ripping off any clients. I'll never recommend those who brag about hustling clients, or who have no issue manipulating men into thinking their feelings go beyond the paid relationship. Using people is not an attractive trait, nor something a professional would do. I never point to another escort simply because I like them either. I recommend those who I believe will fit the criteria the client is looking for. There are a few I don't care for, but my feelings are irrelevant. What is important is that the escort will treat him professionally, keep him safe, respect discretion, and provide the style of service best suited to him. My bias has no place in the equation......

Even though I feel I screen my clients well and to my needs, I can't always be assured we'll have the chemistry needed, nor the connection I hope for, to make dates repeatable and the fact remains some men try this once and that is it....For others, sometimes the stars don't always align, lol. There was a time, long ago, that I'd assume that when myself and a client didn't click that the onus was solely on me, that I did something wrong, or my attractiveness wasn't enough....Thankfully I've grown through those thoughts and realize that I can't have chemistry with everyone I meet and, it's not realistic to think that everyone I meet will want to meet again. It is chemistry that makes any date repeatable and again, it's impossible to have chemistry with everyone. Even though some will try and convince others, that they are unicorns with supernatural powers, and that they do have chemistry with everyone, lol!!.....There are also those who'd like to imprint on others through their garble on review boards, that if they didn't find their chosen escort repeat worthy, it's because of the escort only, and that she or her service were somehow flawed.....Some clients are simple minded and, will never grasp the fact that they play a part in how any of their dates go. Escorts aren't machines. We respond to energy, to manners, to how we're treated, talked to, etc, etc. When any of that is off, those of us who are authentic, will respond in kind, or at the least, it will shift how we offer our service. But as I said, there are those escorts who'll disagree, and claim that every client loves them, but realistically, it's near impossible for any one person to be the same with everyone they meet. But I'm sure there are the exceptions, or rather, "unicorns", lol.......Anyhow, the gist of this blog is that it's important to respect one another, to not lay blame, and to want whomever we meet, as long as they are respectful, and not malicious, to have good times with those who are right for them. Any escort should be willing to recommend another escort and to do so without bias. We should not recommend ONLY those escorts we like, duo with, or hangout with. We should ONLY recommend those ladies who have the qualities the client seeks, regardless of how we feel about any escort.....A part of being a professional is having the maturity to understand that we don't own our clients, and our personal feelings shouldn't have a bearing on who we recommend. We owe the good clients, the nice ones, the respectful ones, a chance to meet someone whose qualities meet their needs and who'll provide them the style of service they seek out. Thanks for reading!!