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Patience and the expectations of them

  • Writer: cristy mature
    cristy mature
  • Aug 5
  • 3 min read

Updated: Aug 8

It's completely understandable that anyone contacting me would have the expectation that I'll be polite with them, and patient. In cases such of a client misspeaking, not hearing, or misunderstanding the meaning of some phrases, etc. I'm always happy to repeat myself within reason, to explain what I'm asking, and why or to make other things clear...but expectations should be reasonable... It is also reasonable that I expect that those who contact me have the ability to understand English, since that is my only language, and because it is also the language my ads are written it. So if you call me and your accent is so heavy and your understanding of the English language is so poor that it prevents you from understanding simple phrases such as "who am I speaking to", and me from understanding anything you say, then it's probably best you contact someone who can speak your language. I shouldn't have to repeat myself multiple times, nor do I want you or I to lose our patience just trying to communicate. I mean, if we can't understand one another over the phone, how could we connect in person?...When you call, It's fair that I expect you to introduce yourself, not start the conversation with "what are your rates"....An introduction is only polite. Yet if I have to repeat myself multiple times to have you respond, or to have you understand that I want to know your name before we speak any further, you too should have the patience to understand that a person can only try so many times before they give up asking and not want to communicate any further. When you book a date with me and claim to be in a profession that would include finding places/locations, I'll assume you have an understanding of directions.... yet if you can't find my incall, even after me explaining the directions through texts and calls, multiple times, and even with you driving by my place while I tell you to stop, because you are in front of the building, yet you still claim to be lost, expect me to lose my patience.... When you blame me for your lack of understanding the simple directions, especially after you tell me to come outside and direct you in, and I explain that I'm dressed in lingerie and can't...lol....I think most would lose their patience...When you contact me through a text app number, and text, asking me all the questions my website answers, and when all my media/ads are posted with "phone calls only" , no text apps, and to read my website prior to calling me, expect me to not have patience and therefore block your number....then when you contact me again from another text app number apologizing, begging to meet, with umpteen reasons why you can't call, and you then promise to send a deposit yet don't.... expect that I'll lose my patience with you and block you again!!

I have patience, patience with those who show me the respect of contacting me as I request, with those who have intelligence, and with those who have patience with me. People need to be more reasonable with their expectations of my patience....If you have a hard time finding places, take an uber. If you can't understand English, make that known, and have a device you can decipher the language with or contact someone who advertises that they speak your language....If you can only contact someone using a text app, and are only willing to text, then contact someone who advertises acceptance of those contact methods...if you are a person who disregards the needs of another, if you are a person who can't understand simple requests, or who isn't respectful, then you have no right to complain about someone not having enough patience with you....we all only have so much patience.....

 
 
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