Lets get into it...

In case you weren't already aware, I'm a no review/recommendation policy holder. As far back as 2018, I requested to no longer be mentioned, reco'ed or reviewed, on recommendation/ review boards. Most ladies and gentlemen understand why some of us have these policies, but you'll also occasionally hear some ner do wells spouting their drivel, that those of us who have them, have them because we aren't worth seeing, offer poor services, because we are to old and unattractive or have something to hide, lol..... I decided to leave the review culture behind after having a discussion with a cherished client. I was convinced by him and from my experiences on different boards, that allowing reviews/recommendations wasn't in my best interest because they were contradictory to the discretion we all promoted and the privacy we expect. This particular client was a lawyer, so I felt he had some insight into things and his opinion rang true to me, it made sense. Especially the part about discretion/privacy. There was more to it but that would make this blog to long.... To his point....How can any of us claim to be discreet, or expect discretion to be given and want privacy, if we are always talking about or posting about those we've been intimate with, or whom we want to be intimate with, regardless of those words we post, being negative or positive. I hold to that belief, while also believing that certain ner do wells within the industry, should be spoken out about. Those in this industry, both client and escort deserve being outed when they act criminally, or dangerously. Making those known who are meaning to harm another is as important, imo, as is keeping safe the information of those who are respectful and not out to harm anyone.

I digress....When I joined the local review board, back in 2011, the whole recommendation/review culture was new to me, and I paid little attention to it's value or harmfulness. I had gotten many great reco's and reviews over the years of my membership-2011/2015..and even up until 2018 when I asked for them to be stopped...Within those last couple of years I did start noticing just how corrupt and toxic the review system and culture could be. It had become clear that some of the popular ladies had manipulated some clients into being their warriors, to tout their greatness, not because they had earned their glowing accolades. Then you had some vindictive clients who'd use it to try and ruin the reputation of someone they had taken a dislike to, also without just cause. So many guys with bad hygiene, disrespectful behaviors, and indiscretions, would use negative reviews and insulting comments as their payback for not receiving services they didn't deserve or in order to support the dislike one of their favorite escorts had towards another escort....These things still happen today, and even more so...The local board, I've been told, is so poorly moderated now anyone can say anything there, it seems and without just cause or without penalization for doing do so.

The culture will always be there as long as this industry remains, although it's relevancy to anyone's success has greatly waned. That being said, any escort should have a right to involve themselves in it or not without judgement or criticism, and clients shouldn't feel it's their right to discuss any escort simply because we advertise our services and have allowed them to obtain them. Before any client comments on or writes a review about any escort, he should be required to ask the escort if she wants to be apart of his discussion or review. We have a right to privacy!! A gentleman will respect the requests of any escort. It's the narcissists, misogynists, and other losers who'll ignore all of that and who'll enjoy posting gossip, lurid details, or other drivel, about any escort, regardless of her requests.

To end....we all move within this industry differently. Whether you take part in review culture or not, respect to ones needs should be given to us all....Yet imo, discretion is another story......Those who take part in review culture shouldn't be promoting it, as it's not something they are offering, if truths be told!