I have to talk about this....

So, the topic of deposits was brought up on the local board....and as per usual there, it turned into discourse. Because that board has a number of so called "men" who claim to hire escorts, and it's clear by all that they post, who also hate us....They talk about us as if we're a product, and expendable. One is this guy, Steven Wilson.... this is one of his quotes from that thread...and here is my issues with what he has said, (my replies are in red)

quote-   On 2/27/2026 at 3:16 PM, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that(This is what he calls those men who willingly screen and send deposits). At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it(This I agree with). There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better(This comment I find humorous as Steven is always complaining on that board that there aren't any escorts in Halifax and encourages men to go to other cities to indulge, although as you can glean from his writing, "indulge" isn't a word he would use, lol and the "even better " comment is just another expample of how he tries to denigrate some of us.). The entitlement is crazy(Yet here we have Steven Wilson, once again feeling entitled to telling all men how they should respond to deposit requests) I do hear SPs point of view (Thank goodness his hearing is working) as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit.(So clearly, Steven believes that asking for a deposit, and wanting to know who the client we are going to be seeing is, is in his words, "treating them like shit" and let me clarify, asking for a deposit isn't because "we've been burnt once, or heard stories"...It's because we want to be safe, and to know who we are going to be meeting) We don't deserve that(Oh poor Steven, I know how rough it is for you and yours ,lol). Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive.("It's hard earned money" is a coined phrase every disgruntled, undesirable client uses, and Steven, don't worry, you'll never be the richest man alive) Its about using common sense and having morals.(What does sending a deposit have to do with having morals?) You can be trusting anyone these days.(I believe he meant "you can't be", lol, but who knows..And you are right Steven you can't trust anyone, that is indeed one of the very reasons intelligent, professional, responsible escorts screen and require a depoist!!.)

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it.(Thank you Steven for giving us your permission for using methods which keep us safe and protected from clients like yourself) I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything.(Lonely wierdo simps? No Steven, you've made it clear you don't screen, lol...Note his despise for those who don't follow his train of thought) but us regular people(I assure you, you are not regular) people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed.( Just, LOL, to the rest of that whole sentence)

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, (Steven is so passionate about his stance on this subject he has to holler it, lol. And I wonder, why does he feel the need to convince others? If he doesn't feel comfortable sending a deposit, or providing screening information, then don't, why doesn't he just follow his own hollered instruction...it's his need to convince others to do as he does, and his denigrating tone when speaking about us that I find disturbing.-you can read through his many posts on that board, they are telling...)

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.(Well excuse the pun, but Steven, I'm sure, for you, it rarely is hard, lol........So on one hand you have Steven trying to convince all clients to not screen/deposit and on the other hand you have him telling us to be comfortable not seeing clients who won't screen....can you see how that is funny.....If all clients stopped screening and we weren't comfortable seeing them because they won't screen, who would we see, lol.....Kind of like the government and their bill c36, allowing us to sell sex, but criminalizing our clients if they buy it....How can you do one thing without the other...

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around,(Again, here we have him saying there are dozens, yet in many other threads, there never seem to be enough, lol) simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them.(He just can't stop denigrating anyone who doesn't follow his train of thought or action and once again he implies that "travelling" and "local" are some how different and one better than the other) But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that(Speaking of entitlement, imagine thinking that you have a right to speak for "the majority" and that he thinks knows anything about how much any escort earns..... Allow me to assure you that as a professional escort, privacy and discretion are the upmost for myself and my clients.I protect theirs as dearly as I protect my own, I can't stress that enough).-end quote

Whether you are a client or an escort, you have to do what enables you to feel comfortable with who you are going to be intimate with. I have a problem with anyone who'll try to convince another that their methods used to feel comfortable are wrong. The fact remains, that when I accept a client, I am inviting a man into my personal space with the possibility of him being intimate and alone with me. That should give me the right to know as much about him as I need, in order to feel safe being alone with him. In turn, if that client won't trust me with the information I require, that is his right and it's best for us not to meet.I'm not going to try and convince him, nor argue about it....I screen my clients in many ways. Since compatibility is as important to me as the transaction. However, not all money is good money. I'd rather lose clients because they wouldn't screen, rather than gain many because I lessened my boundaries and removed my screening practices. Since I started requiring deposits, they have protected me from most of the time wasters,so I'll never stop requiring them....Seldom, will anyone who provides a deposit, not show up for their date. That is why I ask for one. It is my opinion that any client who contacts me knowing that I require a depoist, and who tries to convince me to see him without providing one is a client who has intentions of not showing up, or perhaps other mallicious intents. Experience is a good teacher, and my many years of experience has taught me this!