How to protect yourself from scammers....
- cristy mature

- Aug 3
- 3 min read
Scammers are everywhere!! No matter the site you choose to look at while seeking the company of an escort, there will be no guarantees that the site has vetted properly those escorts advertising on it. So it is up to you to do the work, to ensure who you choose to visit will be a professional and will treat you as they promise....
Research the escorts data. Check that they have a personal website, or fan site. Check their social media, check to see that they have ads on more than one platform (this is important). We (professionals) all advertise on a few. Those who stick one ad on one platform should make your spidey senses tingle. READ in full!! Read the escorts sites, their ads, their socials. Then talk to them. This is my best advice. Even though many escorts say texts only, I'll still recommend that it is important to be able to hear their voice, and to have final concerns addressed vocally, not through text. If they won't allow that, I'll suggest moving on. If an escort having reviews is important to you, check for those also. I feel those are unimportant as I've come to the conclusion that another person's opinion, especially in this industry, holds little value on something as subjective as intimacy and companionship. Plus the review system is often manipulated and abused in order to either besmirch someone's reputation or to enhance it...seldom are these "opinions" without bias or written innocently. After reading all the escorts media, if you then feel a connection and a desire to meet them, contact them as they request, and be prepared to provide them with all the information they request.... This step is of upmost importance. Since many of us will ignore any inquiries that ignore what we ask for....And again, if the escort absolutely won't allow a phone conversation to even solidify the date, I'd say be careful....Bearing in mind there are reputable escorts who will only text.....
Another piece of advice I want to share....Remember, escorting doesn't come with a code of ethics...There are all sorts of character types in this industry. Some have morals, some don't, some have compassion, some don't, and some are great actors. Learn to spot authenticity, integrity and not to fall for the sob stories some will spiel....There are some escorts who's only goal is to find the big fish, the "whale"( a wealthy person).....There are those who will play with your emotions, and milk you for all you have....be aware!! And yes, there are even those with golden reputations who have taken some men to the cleaners. Who have borrowed monies without repayment, who have pretended to be in love with a client, all to only gain as much of his finances as possible. You are responsible for holding the reigns to your emotions.....Be always guarded. Especially with those escorts who are already in a relationship....Those who have husbands and boyfriends. When they start pretending to be "in love" with you, or start asking you for monies outside of the time you've purchased, I recommend pulling back on those reigns....
My final comment...There is no one site that honestly has our (clients and escorts) best interests in mind. They are only interested in making money...So when someone promotes one site as having better, more reputable escorts, be weary. No advertising site, nor any review board can guarantee anyone's good character, or reputation. Even those that verify their members. Since the verification processes are simply requesting the person hold a piece of paper with the sites name, and the date on it....That process can be easily manipulated by anyone....So again, research, read, talk to the person, then decide. And after YOU choose whomever you choose, if it goes well, recommend them to others, if you are into doing that. If not, see them again, or move onto someone else doing as much research to find them. Great dates become so because the parties involved communicated well, had realistic expectations, met someone who represented themselves correctly, had good hygiene, respected given boundaries and understood the need for discretion. Bad dates occur often times because of miscommunication, bad hygiene, pushing of boundaries, indiscretion, and possibly meeting someone with nefarious intentions......In the end the responsibility of who you choose lies only with you. If you do your due diligence things will likely go well, if you just get excited over some pictures and call an escort, then you'll probably be disappointed, or worse....Research and choose wisely and treat yourself to some fun!!



