Have you ever wondered...

When you read a comment that a person writes, be it on social media, or where ever, does it leave you wondering what provoked them to write what they have written. Do you try to analyze the reasoning behind the post or the author? I do, and even though I don't always come to a conclusion, it gives me pause to think, and sometimes rethink some of the things I write and share. Such an example would be a recent comment I read ....The comment was made by a few posters on Terb. A Toronto review board. The comment eluded to most escorts as having mental health issues. If that is the case, if these men firmly believe this, what does that say about those men who believe this, yet still secure those escorts services? Obviously I have my opinion, lol. What is yours?

Another post that I read on twitter which had me thinking and also had me rolling my eyes, was written by another escort...I rolled my eyes because I've read similar types of posts and they are always written by those who have dirty hands while they point their fingers .The post was a "warning" and imo, a try at imputing a "particular person" without naming them ,which in itself is a fruitless act.... It suggested to be careful of who you do duo's with, who you do dinner dates with, etc, without knowing who they are. Seems like common sense, and do we really need someone posting a "warning" to enlighten us to this? Why would anyone agree to meet a person/s for any type of interaction without knowing who they are. Prior to that post, this person made other posts in which she was angry at " a particular person" she claimed was gossiping about her....So clearly the "warning" was because this "particular person" is assumed to have gossiped about her.....Since when has gossiping warranted a public warning? Don't we all gossip? Aren't we all guilty of this behavior, mind you, some are more guilty than others. I see people who make these types of "warning" posts as gas lighters, hypocrites, hate filled and childish. They are simply trying to enlist others to hate "the particular person" as much as they do. I'd say their posts are more a warning to their own character flaws rather than the "particular person" they are warning others about!!

There are always reasons why we write and post what we write and post...understanding the why's behind those writings I find interesting, sometimes disturbing, even intriguing. I'm aware that my interpretations aren't always right, but at least I try and understand:) Now I'm going to analyze why I've written this blog, lol!!

Another post I read was written by a client of escorts. It too was seen on a review board. The comment was a response to others who were making snide remarks about Asian escorts. This "mans" response was, "At least she wasn't a post menopausal Auntie.....Clearly this man has a distain for older escorts. But here is the thing...he's been a member on that board since 2006, nearly 26 years!! In other posts he's mentioned seeing escorts prior to 2000. So clearly he's "mature" in years himself. So what does his comment, his disdain towards older escorts, say about him? I would say he's reflecting his disgust of his own age/aging onto others. In short, he hates being old, so he puts down others who are near or of the same age he is....Your thoughts?

Character assassinations and those who enjoy mocking the physical traits of others seem to be more pervasive now than ever. The internet, being anonymous online has emboldened those who'd never have the courage to say and do such things face to face.....The internet has given power to the powerless.....To those with insecurities, self hatred, and who have to much time on their hands......We all should reflect upon the things we say and write from time to time.... When we are told we have erred or hurt the feelings of others, by our comments, or become regretful because of them, admit the mistake, apologize and grow through it.....No matter how old we are, we are never to old to learn, and to change, if need be.