Disappointed.....

Today wasn't the best....A client that had prebooked my time cancelled ....He had a valid reason, so it seems, yet it was a same day cancellation so it ruined my plans for the day and evening...Like with any date, the day or evening of, I have made my personal plans fit around the time that has been booked, and I've counted on that income that is to be earned.... What made it most disappointing and uncomfortable was me having to explain my cancellation policy to him, which btw, is clearly printed on my website and in my tryst.link ad, where he found me.....Please know it's never comfortable for me to ask any client for payment, and I honestly feel bad when a client has to pay for time he won't get to enjoy, especially when they have a valid reason for cancelling. But in fairness to myself, a cancellation fee is set in place because I'm a low volume escort, and as such, when I'm prebooked, I will ignore other bookings. I'm not interested in seeing lots of clients, even though I get lots of requests. So if I book you, I'm ignoring someone else and the income they could have provided me....Income is part of this.....I plan my dates differently each month. Some months I might see a few clients, other months one or two....Yes, I am that low volume...So again, if you've booked me, I'm not only wanting to have a delicious date with you, I'm also counting on and expecting that certain amount of $$ you'll be giving me. So when you cancel it's not only disappointing on a social/sexual aspect it's also throws a wrench into my financial needs for that month and although I can forgo social outings and my sexual needs from time to time, I can't go without the expected income, nor should I be expected to.... It's probably not a great way of doing business for myself, for a number of reasons, yet that's how I prefer to do things....So to those who think my cancellation policy is unfair, or unwarranted.....I hope this blog helps you understand my need for it.....And to those who have in the past, purposely booked me only to cancel,( and don't ask me why men do this, as it happens to all escorts) that is why I have a deposit fee......To those few who've in the past, ignored paying my cancellation fee, that is why there are black list sites, and block buttons. That is also how we as escorts tell the difference between a gentleman and an asshole......This client was a gentleman.....